Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Jean Smart Joins Fight Against Brain Cancer



Last Friday Jean Smart, Emmy Award winning Actress, accepted a board member position with CEF. Her sister is a glioblastoma brain cancer survivor. We are thrilled to have her as part of our leadership team!

Jean is attending our Gray Ribbon Gala, Friday, October 2nd with her family. Ten Smarts in one room. This is the first time she will speak publicly about how glioblastoma has impacted her family.

I just read Jean’s statement about the Chris Elliott Fund. It’s heartfelt and her insight about finding a cure gives me great hope! Let me paraphrase …”it’s time to bring this disease out of the dark like we do for any other life threatening disease.” She is spot on. We are so fortunate to have her involved with us as a voice for all brain tumor patients and their families.

We are just a few days away from the 8th Annual Chris Elliott Golf Classic and Gray Ribbon Gala Auction. Looks like a full house, a few spots left for golf and the Gala. This is our annual fundraiser that funds research and patient support services. Register today if you haven’t already http://www.chriselliottfund.org/content/events/oct_2nd_gray_ribbon_gala.asp See you soon!

Monday, August 31, 2009

Something New....Guest Brain Tumor Patient Bloggers

Good Moring Everyone. I wanted to let you know that from time to time going forward, I will be inviting brain tumor patients that I know, most of them I personally know, to blog on my spot. Please stay tuned. The idea is for the guest blogger to write about something that they want to share, kind of a Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 format.

My first guest blogger Lisa, has attached her own web page that goes into details about her journey. Please click on the link to view her story. http://www.braintumorsurvivor.info/

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

SUCCESS - What it is now.....

Good Sunday Afternoon! So, last Monday morning, I was asked to think about what SUCCESS is to me now that I've had a life alterating personal experience and talk about this on 1150AM Alternative Talk Radio with radio talk host Pam Hoelzle, #Pamchat on Twitter and which was streamlined on http://www.chatwithwomen.com/. Catch the entire interview as THIS challenge got me to thinking....

Success is not what I once thought it was.....or, even expected. I used to think of success as being a good mother, raising responsible children to become responsible citizens, having a happy, good and healthy marriage, secure in the fact that I had actually picked the right man to be my husband and father of my children, our home, property, wealth, lots of friends. I used to define success as happiness and as the Life that I had ordered!

My story or thoughts on success actually begin in late June 2000 mid-afternoon when I opened up my French doors onto my large patio, felt the sun on my face and smiled while watching and listening to my kids play in our backyard, otherwise known as the "Elliott Park" while my husband was at work enjoying his successful career in the Telecom industry. I remember thinking to myself, "WOW, how lucky am I...."

Imagine this....it is a beautiful sunny Sunday, my family and I had arrived back home earlier in the day from our Crystal Mt. cabin and we were all enjoying a somewhat lazy Sunday afternoon working in our yard, my husband, Chris, was crafting a new arbor and I was getting ready to BBQ. A perfect Sunday afternoon!

On that Sunday, the last day of August 2000, my life and my kids lives were forever and immediately changed and although I didn't know it at the time, I now know that if ever given the chance, I would without a second thought trade in what I used to define as SUCCESS to have my husband back, healthy and alive.

Two hours later, the words "your husband has a primary brain tumor" were what I heard. These words put you in shock, are scary, is bad news but the words that I heard three days later "this is the type of brain tumor that will kill him sooner than later" were simply incomprehensible. I remember that when the neurosurgeon told me these words, I closed my eyes, hit the wall with my fist and couldn't breath. In an instant, I knew that my husband, who was only 39, was going to die from terminal brain cancer. I knew that i would most likely be a widow at 40 and that our then 6 year old daughter and our 3 year old son would most likely grow up without their dad in their lives to love and guide them. When I tell this story, often times this is what brings tears to my eyes, even today.

THIS was the beginning....

In an instant, I transformed from someone who defined success as all those things I mentioned before to this: #1 IF I could save my husband's life, this would be my and my family's success. If I could find the right neuro-surgeon, the right neuro-oncologist, the right clinical trial, the right drug, if, if, if and #2 IF I could keep my children's lives as normal as possible throughout all of this so that their life did not become all about their dad's brain cancer......THIS was my new definition of success.

I KNEW that throughout whatever all of this would entail, I would not only be a role model for our children but I would be a role model for all of our family and friends because in most cases, this was the first experience for most of them with a terminal illness. I knew that I would be the one that others looked up to when a tragedy struck their family in the future. Most important to me though was that I was going to be a role model for my husband in order to help him through this very difficult diagnosis and no matter what the future held for him, I was going to show him how much I loved him by showing him through my actions how together we were going to get through this. IF nothing else, I was going to give my family the gift of strength, love and courage during my husband's illness. Our entire story, Chris' Story, can be found on the Chris Elliott Fund for Glioblastoma Brain Cancer Research website at www.ChrisElliottFund.org.

While trying desperately to save my husband's life, Chris and I were sadly surprised to realize that for the most part, the neuro-oncologists and neuro-surgeons who treat this disease don't' tend to refer their patients out to centers of excellence for this disease, don't seek advice from each other, it is very challenging to find HOPE regarding this disease on the Internet. Glioblastoma (GBM) is the most deadliest of human cancer. Perhaps the one thing that surprised us the most and what DRIVES me today is the fact that there simply were not people or services around to guide us through the "terror of a brain cancer diagnosis and the terror of brain cancer treatment options as well as through the terror of suddenly being thrown into the role of "caregiver" for a loved one with brain cancer". So, in a nutshell, this is why the Chris Elliott Fund exists and these are the services we provide. We KNOW how important help is to have while going through this.

Three weeks before Chris died and knowing that we was going to die soon, he said "we have to do something about this disease". I promised to "do something about this disease" to honor him and to make his last wish come true. Chris wrote his "bucket list" thinking that he had a couple of months to live. We began discussions on development of the CEF. We didn't know exactly what it would look like, how we would fund it or anything except that it would do two things. #1 Fund ground breaking brain cancer research and #2 it would somehow assist brain tumor patients and their families through the brain tumor diagnosis, treatment and caregiver phases of this disease. WE KNEW WE HAD TO PROVIDE HOPE.

So, when my daughter now says to me, "Mom, I want to do what you do when I grow up. I want to run dad's foundation and change people's live", I KNOW we have done something right.

TODAY, I DESCRIBE SUCCESS AS: How many brain tumor patients and their families did I help this week, how many brain tumor patients who have been told their brain tumor is inoperable did I assist into a brain tumor center of excellence who indeed had a successful surgery and tumor removed, how many doctors did I share "Chris' Story" with and educate about brain tumor centers of excellence and genomic testing of brain tumor samples and why this is NECESSARY for advanced brain tumor treatment, how many people did I educate about brain tumors and brain cancer this week and what did the research funds that we work so hard to raise go to this week for new/breakthrough research treatments. I describe success today not by what I have but in the personal sacrafices that my family and I have endured in order to describe success today as how many lives have I impacted and extended since my husbands death through my work with the CEF.

So, TODAY, success means something different to me. Here is a list of some of the things the CEF has accomplished to date that to me, are TRUE SUCCESS indicators.
  • The CEF and I have successfully developed, implementing and are funding the first regions Integrative Patient Support Program (IPSS), consisting of the Chris Elliott Fund Integrative Patient Support Specialist and the Chris Elliott Fund Brain Tumor Patient Support Groups at the Center for Advanced Brain Tumor Treatment (CABTT) at the Swedish Neuroscience Center.
  • The CEF and I have funded the research that led to the discovery that there are molecular subtypes of Glioblastoma brain cancer, which means that no two people/no two brain tumors have the same genetic and molecular structure which clearly indicates the need for individual brain tumor treatment. This discovery established the need or protocol for genetic testing of patients' individualized brain tumors to better define the treatment that should have a more positive response than a "standard protocol and treatment" for all brain tumor patients. The CEF has been published and acknowledged for this breakthrough research in the American Association Cancer Research Journal. This breakthrough discovery has changed the way that brain cancer is treated in certain areas of the country and will one day lead to how brain cancer is treated worldwide. Brain tunor centers in the U.S. noted for their excellence and now the CABTT here in Seattle routinely now test their patients' brain tumors to determine which brain tumor chemo/treatment is the best treatment option for the specific person and their specific brain tumor. We are delighted and proud to have made this world wide positive effect for brain tumor patients.
  • The CEF funded a portion of the clinical trial for Avastin to be approved as a chemo for brain cancer at initial diagnosis. The is only the 2nd drug approved for brain cancer w/in 28 years.

Now that I describe success differently than I did before my husband was diagnosed with brain cancer, you may wonder how the CEF and I fund our efforts to fund research as well as to educate, provide awareness and advocate for the patient. We are driven 100% by volunteers and rely on donations and fundraising. Here's how you can help!

  • JOIN US for CEF/Seattle Storm Night on 8/1 at the Key Arena. $34 tickets on sale through us for $24. This is a fundraiser, so we keep $12 of each ticket.
  • JOIN US 8/23 for the Chris Elliott Fund Summer Bike Ride
  • JOIN US 10/2 for our 8th Annual Chris Elliott Fund Golf Classic at the Golf Club at Newcastle
  • JOIN US 10/2 for CEF's Gala, Dinner/Auction and Awareness Program in the St. Andrews Ballroom at the Golf Club at Newcastle!

Donations and Registration for all of our events are accepted online at www.ChrisElliottFund.org or if you have any questions, please contact us at info@ChrisElliottFund.org.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Feeling Very Proud of the Chris Elliott Fund RIGHT NOW!

Happy Sunday Evening Everyone and Greetings from SUNNY Seattle!
Wow! Some days are really really great! I'm lucky and just had one of those! Today, I KNOW I extended a brain tumor patient's life!

There are definitely days when I can't say this or feel this. Probably the worst part of my job is being in the right place at the right time, sharing my personal experience with brain cancer with a brain tumor patient and explaining what I have learned and what I would do differently to them and/or their family/caregiver and then having the brain tumor patient NOT take action soon enough. The worst is that they let too much time slide by between talking to me and deciding to let me help them receive advanced brain tumor/cancer treatment. The worst is that when they do come to be after they've sat on the info. I've provided/shared and it's too late - the open door to receive advanced brain cancer treatments is now closed. THAT is a challenging day for me.

But, the BEST part of my job and what I want to share today is what it feels like to "change someone's life" who has been diagnosed with a brain tumor! So, you all know that my husband was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer (read his story at http://www.chriselliottfund.org/) almost 9 years ago. I can't tell you HOW MANY times I wished so much while going through this diagnosis, treatments, surgeries, caregiving and researching for something that would save my husband's life, that there was a person like me to help my husband and I receive advanced care! I KNOW why I do what I do and it is because I have felt first hand the frustration that comes with this disease and how little help there is for people and their families who are diagnosed with brain tumors/brain cancer.

So, when someone reaches out to me for help, I tell them of my husband's experience and what I learned from that experience and what I would do differently today if I had the chance. I tell them how I can assist them in getting advanced brain cancer care and how I can make introductions to large brain tumor centers noted for their excellence across the country as well as into the Center for Advanced Brain Tumor Treatment (CABTT)w/in the Swedish Neuroscience Center here in Seattle. So, when a patient and their family listen and learns from me and when I can successfully get them into see a brain tumor specialist (neurosurgeon and/or neuro-oncologist) and when I can successfully help them have a resection (removal of the tumor) especially when one is told that their tumor is inoperable, and I can assist them in defining the chemo/treatment that will have the most impact on their specific tumor based on their tumors genomic/molecular profile, I simply call that a "very good day".

In the last three weeks, I have helped three brain tumor patients who heard the words when initially diagnosed "your brain tumor is inoperable". Having heard those words regarding my husband's 3rd and 4th brain tumor, I KNOW how startling and hopeless one feels after this diagnosis. So, here's how simple this is and the service that the Chris Elliott Fund provides. Hopefully, you already know about the CEF when you or a loved one is diagnosed and if not, you hear about the CEF from someone else or you get on line and find us and then contact us at info@ChrisElliottFund.org or via eVoice at 425.642.8364. eVoice messages come directly to me via your recorded message on my email account.Most of the time when you contact us, you will get me but sometimes you will get our Patient Outreach/Advocacy Committee, which is comprised of two ladies who have lost their husbands to Glioblastoma (GBM) and a young lady who lost her dad last year to GBM. We are here to help you. I or they will share our personal stories with you, listen as you share your or your loved one's story and then we will share with you what we have learned that could potentially extend or even save one's life from their brain tumor or brain cancer. We'll share with you how we can get you in FAST to a large brain tumor center noted for its excellence or if you are in the Seattle area, we will explain how we can get you into the CABTT quickly and if you want us to arrange for a consult, we will get right on it and w/in 24 hours most likely have your appointment made w/in the next week. The other thing that is vitally important to understand is that many times when one is told that their "brain tumor is inoperable" it is because of 5 things, #1 the skill level of the neurosurgeon, the neurosurgeon is not specialized enough and does not solely focus on and operate on brain tumors and #3 the MRI guided equipment he/she is using with surgery is old or outdated, the neurosurgeon does not have access to a CyberKnife and is not skilled in a new surgery technique called "Ultrasonic Aspiration.

So, it is a GOOD day when I've been able to "change someone's life" and have worked with a brain tumor patient and their family to get their brain tumor genetically tested for its molecular structure to determine which chemo the person's individual brain tumor will have a better reaction to (biopsies can reveal this info. also not just resections/removal of the tumor) and/or I have successfully arranged for someone to have a safe resection of their brain tumor when they had been told it was "in operable".

I'm often asked "Do you supposed this is the purpose of your life?". I will blog about this next time!

In the meantime, catch me tomorrow morning, Monday 7/20, on KKNW AM1150 and what my life has taught me about "how I describe success now". Go online to http://www.chatwithwomen.com/ to click to watch the live show or listen to the show. Also, follow me on Twitter at: EndBrainCancer and engage on Twitter at #pamchat 8-9A this Monday!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Inspiration

Daily Inspiration. 7 years out from Diagnosis! This is why the Chris Elliott Fund does what they do and advocate that brain tumor patients receive the most advanced brain tumor/cancer care/treatment available and beneficial to them vs. standard protocal/treatment for all brain tumor patients. Genomic and molecular testing on one's individual brain tumor tissue is imparative. If this is not a routine option for where you are being treated for brain cancer, I would advocate that you seek your healthcare at a brain tumor center that offers this advancement.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1evnkZvG1Q